P.S.

Just a thought:  How does one determine (through careful discernment - yes, I know) those times when to let things go...and the times to act?  I look at it this way.  One can say, don't add fuel to the fire...let it go even if it means swallowing pride or hurt or whatever.  Responding/reacting to certain things can increase the upheaval.  BUT...(of course there is a but)  but how about those times that the unattended spark or ember grew into the inferno that destroys everything around it?  How many devastating fires have occurred because no one paid attention.